Wouldn’t it be great if we could authentically share vulnerabilities and support each other rather than feel intimidated by other people’s success? There is power in a supportive perspective. I have found this to be especially true as a female leader in a world that tends to undermine the intelligence, strength, and capabilities of women. I wrote the following poem when social events around the world revealed a greater need to support and encourage women as leaders. Let’s name the challenges, support each other, and create a healthier world that appreciates the talents and gifts of all.
I will lend you courage.
I too have stood before the abyss
And experienced the dilemma -
Turn back
Or jump to a new way.
I will lend you courage.
I also was shaken by grabbing hands
And struggled to respond -
Give in
Or say “No. Not today.”
I will lend you courage.
I have seen scowls shouting judgment
And faltered on my path to question -
Stop moving
Or believe I’m going the right way.
I will lend you courage.
I have heard people’s disparaging views
And stopped seeing true while asking -
Accept their cynicism
Or create a better day.
I will lend you courage.
To leap the abyss
Shake off grabbing hands
Ignore destructive sneers and shouts
To see your truth
And follow your own lovely way.
I will lend you courage
With kind, affirming words
And a vision of hope
For going beyond imposed limitations
To embrace possibilities of today.
Will you lend me courage?
When I again stand at the abyss
Try to escape grabbing hands
Face distracting scowls
Or hear shouts diminishing hope.
I will lend you courage.
Will you offer me the same?
This poem was published in “100 Poems & Possibilities for Healing: Volume 2” by Brave Healer Productions (2025.